17 comments on “If I Release You…Let You Go…

  1. BRILLIANT MUSE………………..
    “Pick up my pieces, walk away, and learn.”
    YOU ARE DEFINITELY ONE OF THOSE HUMANS THAT LEARNS FAST ……….. :) C

    • Thank you Cat! I can say it has not been very easy, Parts of me still hold on to what I lost… but one day I will truly let go… I am working on it.
      XOXO

      • DO YOU KNOW PINK – SHE IS JUST ON MY SITE – IN THE LAST COMMENTS – FROM WHAT I WROTE YESTERDAY- SHE IS KINDA WRITING SAME VIBE STUFF AS YOU …….
        LOVE YOU MUSE ….
        YOU LET GO EVERYTIME YOU WRITE IT OUT – CUZ IT POURS OUT OF YOUR HEART XOXOXO

    • Certainly it is… it’s a battle but I am putting one foot in front of the other. I may look back at times but I know that one day I won’t. ♥

    • Thank you. It was very hard to hear and it really surprised me to hear it come from his own mouth. I did him very wrong… but a statement like that is worse than simply hating. We get along good enough but it is superficial…

      • I’ve never heard words quite as cruel as that, but I have been told just how awful I am, and it’s never easy to hear. I understand the superficial aspect; my ex and I ended up the same.

        Anyway, on a less sad subject (hugs, by the way), I’ve nominated you for the One Lovely Blog award – http://halfwaybetweenthegutter.wordpress.com/2012/06/15/one-lovely-blog-award-and-some-big-confessions/. Do with it what you will!

        And in my opinion, he should never said that to you. No matter how much you did him wrong. Some things you just don’t say to another person.

      • Thank you for the award!! You put a smile on my face.
        I agree… some things should never be said and I bite my tongue often because I follow the golden rule…
        I learned from my mistakes though and am moving forward… thankfully. ♥
        Thank you for the hugs!

  2. Muse, this is heart-rending, and it brought tears to my eyes … I am so sorry … (((big hugs))) ~ Love, Julie xox

  3. “you made me lose faith in humanity.”

    I am sure you have enough experience with counselling/therapy by now to have come across the notion of “taking responsibility for your own feelings”. No one can “make” another person take on a particular attitude. It is he who has taken the decision to lose faith. With a moment’s reflection you well remember that actually you already know this. You at least are taking responsibility for yourself and doing whatever you can to repair the past while living clean in the unrolling present. No blame! Rather respect and encouragement be your due,

    • Thank you Ben for reminding me of this. You are very right. Emotional intelligence is so important yet hard to remember at times. I know I am not responsible for his loss in faith… I think I was just tremendously hurt by the phrase itself. It felt manipulative and uncalled for.
      Thank you for always being the sound of reason… it helps very much to keep me grounded. ♥

      • People’s words can be so hurtful. The closer you are to them, the more hurtful it is. “Manipulative”. That sounds about right. “Always the sound of reason”. I wish! :P

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