Men, Boys… Boys, Men
I have seriously got to get over my thing for younger guys. SERIOUSLY. I am not talking about cradle robbing perversion… but too young for my age and goals. I have only dated a couple men my age and the rest are generally 5 or more years younger. I believe it is partially because I attract younger men and partially because they attract me. Don’t get me wrong… I have seen some men my age and older that get my attention, but they are far and few in between.
Why??
I don’t know.
Maybe it has something to do with the thought that a younger man will be less permanent because their goals are much different from mine… so it is a security thing for me because I don’t have to deal with the seriousness of a “real potential” type of relationship. Then again, I just got out of a relationship with a man 5 yrs younger than me that wanted the same things but for reasons too heavy for me to accept, I ended it.
The younger guys have got to go.
There must be a reason I choose “unavailable” men… and tend to like them a hell of a-lot more.
Time to Psychoanalyze myself.
This is my life through poetry, quotes, and my journal. The intense ride of my ups and downs of life ...and the relentless mood disorders I suffer from.
maybe younger isn’t problem, maybe just seem easier to trust….seem, Love, Linda
August 14, 2012 at 3:33 PM
You’re still young. What you need is a guy who looks young, and acts young a lot of the time, but actually is old.
August 14, 2012 at 6:55 PM
Precisely! That is the type of man that I hope will come into my life at the right time.
August 14, 2012 at 8:07 PM
Presto!
August 15, 2012 at 6:27 PM
i see your point. sometimes the bridges between the ages can be a factor. though, i’m not an expert by any means, however age can come into play as to experiences of life.
August 15, 2012 at 2:33 AM
Very true… I can’t quite put my finger on it. I am young at heart and tend to look younger than I am…so I am sure that plays a role too.
August 15, 2012 at 5:51 AM
“Time to Psychoanalyze myself.”
Always is!
August 15, 2012 at 9:42 AM
LOL!! Very true…. always.
August 15, 2012 at 10:28 PM
I’m only 28
))) xx
August 15, 2012 at 2:29 PM
28 is such a great age! I think that was my favorite year for myself personally. I may be in my 30′s, but mentally I am no older than 28.
August 15, 2012 at 10:29 PM
Same here, I have always been 28 since a child and always will be
August 16, 2012 at 6:18 AM